I know this is ot, but I wanna vent

My day? Well, I've been home for just a little while, and I've already been yelled at.

Here's the story,

I was recording a song in my room, and mom knocked on my door. Well, with my headphones on, I could not hear her. So, I'm almost done recording the song, and I start being able to hear her. She was pounding on the door like a maniac, screaming "DON'T IGNORE ME!". She told me (at the top of her lungs) to clean up the chocolate milk that had spilled in the car, and then went back to her room.

I'm like, "Dude, wtf?". So, I go in and ask her why she was banging on the door like a maniac, and she went on and on about the chocolate milk and what not. I explained to her (in a very strong voice, cause I was pissed by then) that I could not hear her, but she didn't care.

So, I clean the milk up, yada yada yada. I go upstairs, go to her door and find that she's locked it. I knock and tell that the milk has been cleaned up, and I ask if she would open the door. No answer. I then proceed to tell her that, and I quote, "I'm sorry I yelled at you, but don't you ever scream at me like that again. This was your fault". She then decides to say her patented catch-phrase, "Whaaaaatever...", to which I reply, "Yeah, you say that because you know I'm right. You call yourself a Christian? You don't have the truth in you.".

I'm REALLY glad I'm moving to Belton (away from her).

Maybe now would be a time to practice some Buddhist ideals... Eh?

I guess this would be a good time to say It's no use crying over spilt milk

yeah my mom gets mad at me for no reason too sometimes

stop bitching. you have no idea how nice that sounds compared to 99% of the world; "wow, my problems amount to... my mom got pissed at me after i raised my voice to her like a little brat when she asked me to go clean milk spilled in the car"

your life is one of ease and luxury; your parents aren't bad at ALL if you even for one second thought that this was out of the ordinary in a bad way; you shouldn't have raised your voice to your mother (it's unbiblical as well as generally just shitheaded); and you really ought to get some perspective on how good things really are for you.

Shut the hell up, baud.

I KNOW things are good for me. Do you know where I come from? Poverty. Not knowing if you're gonna be evicted or not. Having to go to family members for food because there's none at home.

Think before you speak, idiot.

if i lacked dignity, i would get into how much i know about poverty. but don't think you're the only damned one that's poor... get over it. it's of no importance at all. unless you're so destitute that the struggle to survive pushes every thing out of it's way, like it does in places where people are actually poor, you have nothing to complain about. if you never have to go more then 72 hours without food more then a few times, you are not poor.

you're just another spoiled kid that thinks he has any idea what poverty is like because his family went through some tough times. and has the gall to talk about 'where he came from'. you came from the united states - and not some of the few places in which real poverty exists, either.

and yeah, what about the whole, 'thou shalt respect thy mother and father, so that your days may be long upon the earth' thing? is 'respect your mother and father' not one of the ten commandments? you're lucky Christ repealed the old laws because 'mens hearts were hard' else you'd be a candidate for being stoned for that.

no ones perfect baud, not even you fyi.. so you can stop being so high and mighty, cuz ur no better than the rest of us

i didn't say i was. i just said i'm sick of 'oh woe is me' antics when they are completely unjustified.

Forgive me for not wanting to be yelled at every day.

Going with what you say, people with AIDS shouldn't say anything because some people have Cancer.

I think you should buy her a rose. Well, not actually because of that what happens, but because she is your mother, that I think you love because you live in home still.

In my opinions minor stuff like these should be just ignored and not telling anyone that "I am right" or "you were wrong" thats not reason or what happens, its emotional and cannot be justified. Things just happen, and arqument is ready.

Remember, there will come a day, when you think you should been care her more regardless how much you did. Every nice act even if it need an ignoring the thruth that you was "right" is worth of every moment.

Cheers

Sorry Baud, but I have to admit I started to laugh a little when I noticed you're moaning on about how you're sick of him moaning on...by comparisent, I've no idea how you may complain! :P

Yep, I's be pretty annoyed to that she'd get so annoyed just because I was busy and could'nt hear her, espcially if I was about to finish a recording. ALhtough I'd just not complain, clean the milk carry, carry on with what I'm doing ni the day and by the end of the day I'd tell her please not to do that again and just mention I could'nt hear her, so hopfully that'd work for you, works for me in similar situations.

This is a prime example of how childish this site has gotten, Im finding it hard to come back to this site because of all the bullshit that goes on. Here if you need to vent about your mommy yelling at you on a guitar forum the least I can do is give you advice. Shut up and Grow up.

I wish my Mum was still alive. I'd gladly let her bitch me for the rest of my life!
You never know what you've lost 'till it's too late.

I agree with Bodom ans sixties,this site has gotten childish theres a line between jokin around and complaining about your mommy bitching and if my 16yr old(KID) ever told my wife not to do something again strong voice or not he'd get get smacked in the mouth cause if he thinks he can talk like a man, he'll get treated like one. And I agree sixties I wish my parents were here still also...they could scream at me all day and I'd love it.

I also agree actually, it's kind off REAL off topic, but I honsetly don't see how agressivly insulting that stops this place from being childish.

did anyone stop to think, that AmericanBrits (skold) considers you friends. Maybe he wanted support from his "friends" maybe he did just want to make this site a failure, but why does it matter, your his friends, and as i can see from other threads you all seem to respect him, so this is where the cliche comes in, "What Are Friends For"

hah the begging and middle sounds just like my home, my mom opens thre door, of course im blasting my amp, and immediatly puts her hands over her ears. she then closes the door and runs to her room, anyway when i quit for like 5 mins, which is rare she comes in pissed sayng y didnt u brign up the laundry. i say u never tld me to, she sayd when i came to your room, i say u just put ur hands ov ur ears, is tht the international signal for laundry?!? she gets pissed, i take it up then play and ignore her for the day.

Well said Pager

Thanks, ya`ll. At least some understand what I'm saying.

And to those who think I'm just a spoiled whiner, let me tell you that I am anything but. I love my mother, and I appreciate everything she's done for me. She worked 2 jobs (day and most of the night) for a big portion of my life just so I could go to a good school and have a roof over my head (and my sister's head). There were times when she would go without eating just so that me and my sister could.

Believe me when I say that I am very grateful for her and her sacrifices.

Just don't bother to argue even if you think you're right. It'll solve a lot of issues.

In this world, you have to see something:

No matter what you say or do to make someone change their mind about something, they will not. Even if all the information is right in front of them, fact for fact, some people still will never change their mind. Sometimes you need to step back from your own argument and ask yourself, "Is this worth my time?"

Hopefully the answer to that question is always no.

I am one of those stupid ,closed minded people ,no shit? ask my wife lol...just so skold knows...and everyone else, I dont talk down to anyone thats not what I am about,what I am about is writing what I feel and not giving a shit what people think cause if I do I lose my self and trust me my freinds I have lost my self to many times.So skold you posted this thread to vent so if others vent its wrong?shit dude,I am no better or worse than you, and if ya can't vent thro friends who the F*** can ya vent thro?

Umm, did you even post? Grammar would be nice, too.

Yep your a KId...lmao

GRAMMAR NAZI STRIKES AGAIN ;)

Oh, I see. Trying to piss me off because you have no real argument. Good strategy!



I HAVE ELIMINATED ALL THE JUICE!

I lost my mother two years ago and believe me, when she's gone you will remember hundreds of things just like this. I'm not saying you were right or wrong and I'm not saying never raise your voice to your mother. That's just part of the teen years. I'm just saying keep in mind that she will be gone someday and you will have to live with stuff like this for the rest of your life.

A quote from a song I posted on this site.

"sometimes the ones that you love
get called from above and there gone

sometimes the pain that you feel
is all that seems real in this place"

This is about my mother and all the things I regret.

Brit If you think that I'm trying to piss you off, you really are a complete ass...I thought about quitting coming to this site but there are quite a few people I like here ,your just not one of them...so please keep the child comments to P.M's so the rest of us don't have to read about your girl freinds and your mother bitching.This site is about music. Lets get back to that, cause if we dont this site is going to go down hill.

I do believe this was posted in GENERAL CHAT.