baudelaire |
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you guys oughta go work for FOX news. you can spin a comment into ANYTHING. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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SHUT UP i said! try putting urself in there shoes! how do think u'd feel?
u cant answer for 2 reasons
1. u have NO idea wut that experience is like
2. u dont know wut SHOES feel like, cuz ur a homeless low life. |
baudelaire |
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i didn't say i knew what it felt like. i just know that some of the damage that is done to women because of rape, exists because of the way we look at it. if we as a society looked at rape the same way we look at assault, then these women would be better off. there would be no harmful stigma's, no guilt, no sense of violation more then when a person is beat up.
when a person gets the hell beat out of him (i've been there for sure), they don't feel guilty, they aren't generally mentally scarred, it certainly doesn't ruin their life. we need to stop with the over the top victimization of women when they are raped; because it really does make them more of a victim then they need to be, and it's unfair to women that we do that to them, when we could just as easily have a culture where if you are raped, it's not a shame, it's not something that will scar you for life, it's just a bad experience akin to being beat up. this would save a lot of pain for the victims... probably most of it, because rape is more psychologically unpleasant then physically.
as i said, you people can take something i say, like saying we shouldn't hurt women, and turn me into a monster for saying it. you should work for FOX news, and do all their hit jobs on people's character by twisting the truth and their words. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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u CANT say they shouldnt be mentally scarred cuz U DIDNT EXPERIENCE IT!
men and women dont think the same you know.. for me i could be shot at and nearly killed, then go home and play halo, but girls dont think the same way |
baudelaire |
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yes, i can say that. i don't need to experience rape to know that women are victimized beyond necessity by our culture, and it damages.
you don't fucking get it. the mental aspect is completely subjective. if you had a island, and you put a bunch of parents with instructions on it to teach their children certain things, they could teach their children that rape was GOOD if they wanted to, and the women would be THRILLED at the prospect of being raped. now, because we believe that the violation of someones body without consent is wrong, we would not do that. but we don't have to make it a scarring, life altering event, either. we MAKE rape that scarring, life altering thing; we don't HAVE to.
this stigma and cultural attitude is part of the true sexism in our culture; not the fake sexism that idiot feminists blabber on about, but the real sexism. teaching women to be completely ruined when they are raped is sexist and cruel, and we should STOP it. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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u completely missed the part about women not thinking the same didnt u?
w/e im not arguing anymore, this is stupid |
baudelaire |
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did you miss the point about people thinking the way they're taught to?
and what you're implying is borderline sexist... and that's coming from someone who is almost always called sexist. |
TheAmericanBrit |
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I'd really like to see what those punks would say if they were raped.
They would probably shut the hell up. |
baudelaire |
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i'd like to see what they said if GG alin raped them. that would be poetic justice. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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THEY DONT CONTROL WUT THEY THINK!!!!
holy bullfish!
theres only 2 things that make me mad
ppl with egos the size of a bluewhale such as urself, and rape.. and people NOT supporting helping people who have experienced it, such as urself.. |
baudelaire |
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i'm the one here that proposed a way to help women who are raped. and addressing specific points of yours with logic and supportable postulates, that support my conclusion, the intent of which is to help rape victims.
you're the one saying the same thing over and over again like a skank shouting some ebonics phrase at the judge over and over while z-snapping, until the judge just gets sick of it and tells protective services to take her child away.
your posts are barely coherent by the rules of English grammar. my posts all use proper syntax, spelling and punctuation.
i just want to impress upon you here how immature and silly you seem. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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how is telling them not to worry support?
this is not a frickin spelling contest |
baudelaire |
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i'm not saying we should just, 'blow it off'. i'm saying we need to change our attitude as a culture around it so as to eliminate the completely unnecessary associations women make with being raped in our society.
it's cruel for us to harbor a image of rape victims in our collective mind as being eternally guilt ridden, violated, damaged by a feeling of worthlessness and powerlessness, because these become self fulfilling prophecies. they are embedded in the minds of women, and they fully manifest themselves when they get raped.
if we changed that image, so that we considered rape nothing more then a abhorrent form of assault, and we did not go out of our way to victimize rape victims above and beyond what is necessary, rape would no longer be something that completely ruins the life of a woman. it would not be anywhere near as traumatic if women were raised to not view it as such a cataclysmic event from which nothing will be left of them. our current way of thinking is sexist and cruel. it creates needless suffering and pain.
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BodomBeachTerror |
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ull nvr get a gf =p
im done w/ this |
TheAmericanBrit |
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I see what Baud is saying. We need to learn how to get past things like that. Not completely forget them, but not let them control us.
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BodomBeachTerror |
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yeah i agree.. but Should, and Capable-of-doing are very different things |
baudelaire |
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yeah, you're pretty sexist. just because women are different then men doesn't mean they are useless retards. |
TheAmericanBrit |
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Men and Women should be equal. No one deserves to be raped. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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i never said that.. i said they think different, i know.. my best friend was raped |
TheAmericanBrit |
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Everyone thinks different. Men, Women, Old Folks, Young Folks. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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baud i hope u start dating a girl then find out later that she was sexually abused, you'll get dumped soooo fast |
TheAmericanBrit |
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I wouldn't wish that on him. I may think differently from him, but he doesn't deserve it. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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true.. but theres nothing in this world we actually deserve.. good or bad
he would have brought it upon himself if it happened |
TheAmericanBrit |
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I'm glad I don't get what I deserve. If I did, I'd be screwed.
Rather, I try to be content with what I have because I know I deserve worse. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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yeah totally |
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Well, speaking from a girl myself, personally if I was raped I'd probably be scared and feel violated. But only for a while, because I personally think; "Why should my life be ruined?" "Why should I give these rapists what they want?" I'd live my life happily because I wouldn't let fools like them get the better of me.
Guys can be raped, too. It's not just women.
I don't agree with you Bodom, that women think differently. It's generally those who feel like the victim that think the way your friend does. Hopefully she'll overcome her fear one day and live happily. |
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guys can be raped? by girls? wtf... Here! Im goin to report as volunteer!!! |
TheAmericanBrit |
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From what I hear, women who rape men generally do so with dildos and what not... |
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hahah Empirism, you're a brave soul
Yeah, that's what happens. Personally I don't see any pleasure in that.
But it could just be because some girls want revenge or something weird like that. Never know.
When I find a female rapist, I'll let you know why she does it. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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just go up to her and ask "hey, how do you rape guys?"
smart plan! |
baudelaire |
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guys that are raped by guys are very frequently far more devastated then females that are raped by guys.
for the same reasons i stated, however. |
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Yeah, but no one likes bro rape.
Especially if you aren't gay.
Oddly enough, men probably enjoy anal sex (catching) more than women. It has to with the prostate glands being right in the anus. Basically, it's the male G-spot. |
BodomBeachTerror |
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gross. tmi. idc lol |
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No one likes any rape, not just bro rape Skold haha. Apart from BDSM people.
Yeah, you've done your research haha.
Of course I'm going to go up to her and ask. I'm not afraid of asking a question. Besides, I'm a girl, she might think I'm interested hahaha
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Bodom, did you know that you can achieve orgasm pretty much instantly from Prostate stimulation.
If you are cool with a girl sticking her fingers up there, then it's all smooth sailing. |
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hahahaha
Nice one, Skold. |
TheAmericanBrit |
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Truth is funny. |
baudelaire |
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ehh, no. i don't care how good it feels, i do not want a dick in my ass, especially the unlubed rough dick of a big black guy in a prison cell. |
TheAmericanBrit |
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Women's fingers work just as well (actually, they work better). |
BodomBeachTerror |
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sicksicksick!
raping women is gross enough!!! |
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